Little Demon: The Adored One Part IV

I was chatting to a friend yesterday, discussing relationships, finding a mate and falling in love.  My friend remarked that his current partner, “Completes him!’

Immediately I thought of The Adored One. I asked myself, “Do I feel that?” I said to myself, “No he doesn’t.” Then again, I was looking for a reason, any reason, to hate him [internally] so that I can rid myself of my attraction to him.

The idea though, that someone completes you, is rather idealistic. Not impossible, just idealistic.

Personally, I have no problem with idealism. It gives you a goal to work towards.  I do not think that finding someone who completes you, is an unattainable idea. But I do think, it is important to be open to the possibility. As much as I try to deny them, my inner desires, do have a way of manifesting themselves, and when they do, I am reminded that they are an expression of what I had desired.

Anyway, when I ask myself, “Does the Adored One complete me?”  I don’t think he does. Then I ask myself, “Does he have to? Isn’t it enough that we connect? and if I were fortunate, to find that his feelings are reciprocated, then “Wouldn’t I be willing to build something, a life, a….?” Of course I would.

Perhaps, “complete me” is another term for “deep connection”? A connection that inspires you?

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Little Demon: The Adored One Part III
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